the pain factor is reduced, thanks to painkillers.
throat is painful, but it's normal, as the nurse warned. mum made me barley water to cool down body's temperature..
my face is even more swollen than yesterday now, to the extent it's kind of distorted. and both ends of my mouth is bruised, i don't know why.
i can't open my mouth big and eating poses to be a problem for me now. i practically swallow without biting.
i feel sleepy the whole day and indeed i slept through today. it's indeed nice and relax for me. i feel no stress. i can at last drop down and sleep without thinking about work at all.

i was doing abit of reading just now and chanced upon a quote.
here's how it goes..
“you lose your patience most easily to the person close and closest to you.”
it can be your family, boyfriend, best friends.
for me, it's my younger brother.
sometimes, we do really have to run through what we want to say in our minds, before shooting our mouth off.
cos you can never feel how the receiving party on the other end feels.
our usage of words, the tone, facial expressions all counts in.
once the hurt is done, the unpleasant memory is embedded forever.

what happens to my brother is, i tend to say whatever i want expecting him to be able to digest easily after and not take it to heart. i expected him to take in my shit cos he knows me very well. this is very wrong! 有时，不是你要讲什么，就能讲什么的。
everyone wants to be appreciated and feels valued.

for me, it's never my style to tell someone off in front of other people. NEVER. cos i place great importance on the pride of another.
有些人，毫无顾忌地在一群人面前指出别人的失误，严重打击到他人的自尊，还自鸣得意，这就是自私的行径。我最不能够认同这种作风。这类人的朋友也会离这种人，而去。因为不想无缘无故受伤害！这种人通常还把他们伤害别人的表现解释为，个性直率，是个直来直往的真性情。天啊！但是，往往也就是这一类的人，最不能接受别人的批评，别人提出的的意见，也最不喜欢别人过问。永远是别人应接受他的一切。这样的人，受到人家的讨厌还不自知。人毕竟也会有失误的时候，为什么不能站在他人立场看，体谅别人，多关心别人呢？从来没犯错，不代表永远不会犯错，不会有失误的时候。就因为是人，所以会有失误，犯错的时候。。

even towards your love ones, best friends over a decade, your boyfriend of years, always remember not to step over that boundary line. learn to speak nicely like how you did on a first date with him. polite, thoughtful and gentle. it doesn't make sense to let your man bear nonsense like these just because the relationship is already so close and so comfortable with each other. these should never change isn't it? no matter how close, treating your love ones with respect is the way to go! showing respect to others is basic courtesy.if you care enough and respect the other party, you will care enough how much hurt will be imposed and pause before shooting your mouth off and saying whatever you initially wanted to.