我可爱的父母。。

Nothing is more precious than family ties in this world.
And I have mentioned countless times I have absolutely fabulous parents, I will never trade my parents for anything. and I mean anything..
Pa married at his thirties and despite the generation gap between us, His teachings has never been " I am your dad, so you have to listen to me."
At very young age, I was already freely voicing out my thoughts and opinions and He will listen on, to the younger generation's way of thinking.
Ma is the typical wife and mother in a chinese family, quiet and observing her kids.
When Pa speaks, Ma keeps quiet. When Ma speaks, Pa listens and together they have their own adult discussion. why adult? I am forever a kiddo in their eyes with a fiery temper and we RESPECT each and every's views in this family.

Regardless of what in the future, I want to live with my parents.
My parents are such dear, I LOVE them to BITS!
both of them are such easy going folks who never want to inconvenience people.
Pa is humourous, kind with a big heart.
Ma is quiet, kind with a big heart too!
Realise something in common?
My folks are both kind and generous person.
The efforts, time and money spent on me, 永远拿不回来。
and the fact they are not educated, I was given THE BEST and was never deprived of anything I wanted during my childhood.

If they have both went through hard life in their younger days, I think right now, it is time for them to enjoy their harvest.
I will start bit by bit. whatever I am doing now, is not enough, I can do better.
I will do my best.
I don't want regrets.
I know they want alot time with me. I know they need my attention too.
Everyone enjoys being Loved and appreciated, parents are entitled to these as well.

Pa's 金玉良言 always comes at the right time for me at every different stages of my life.
He doesn't go round and round telling me why this that and etc, but just a phrase like 蜻蜓点水 to let the ripple of water come through, so I can see clearly what's in the reflection.
The ice breaking moment is always useful during meals. Pa always have a little chat with me when we share food. I like Pa's approach towards me. Since young, it always works.
I wouldn't say I am very independent although better than some but definately not the toughest! and to take good care of myself, I have to go Tougher!
Pa's greatest wish for me is, to be able to take care of myself in future and know what to do if problems crop up in future and He is not around.
How heart breaking is that....?
He did NOT mention to find a dependable, stable man who I can entrust myself to, so that I will have a man to look after me in future.
He has seen too much and He knows no one is more dependable than our own selves to lead a good, stable and happy life.
No one is Liable for anyone.
Everyone is responsible for their own Lives, Health and Happiness.
I acknowledge that too.
With a partner, it's not weal all the time. Woes come as well.
Double the Happiness, Double the Sadness.
人始终， 是要自己一个人的。
While my parents are still young, I want to bring them around and see this world with them.

人老了， 要越老越可爱， 才有人爱。
我的父母就是这样， 很可爱。很好爱。