Now, what do you do, when those close to you and your ownself has troubles?
wallow in frustrations and hug together lamenting why? why?
Nope, neither....
settle your own set of troubles first, or whichever is urgent.
only when you are free of troubles, then you are able to lend others a helping hand.
even if we can't help others with their troubles, at least do not burden others with ours.
everyone has their own means of solving issues, and only we know what is best for us.
但一个人说不知道的时候， 其实心里早已经有数下一步要做什么。。
那如果已经知道了要怎么做， 不如给自己多一点心理准备， 去面对。
most of the times, we do not need our love ones to come up with a solution to our troubles.
A companion, confidante is all we need..