Ooops!
Just woke up!
Hehehe..
Gosh!! You say...
Wait.. wait...
I have a valid reason okie...
What? Shoot!
Last night, I was out dating!!
With who? You ask.
Muahahaha!!! Her... My Hot Date!

What occasion? You ask again!
Well, cos it has been a long time since the Man & Boa went out on a date!
I need to constantly give the Boa, the honeymoon period feel despite being "married" for so long! Married couples shouldn't go about life as a mundane married couple!
There and then, You need to go on dates just like how you started off initially during courtship to rekindle the LOVE despite married!
The Boa must feel LOVE all the time.
Whatever that was done during dating should continue in marriage life and in fact it should not stop you from working any harder to make the Boa feel loved and in return You feel loved too!
All because, the woman you married is officially YOURS. 你的女人。
Shouldn't we cherish more that we married the partner of our dreams?
I think we should!


However the one universe mistake people make is, We tend to take people, take things for granted!
Example: A simple Thank You...
If You knew how to say "thank you" in the beginning when You first know someone, why does this habit of appreciation disappears after You know a person for long?
Does it mean that just because we are already so used with one another, we may dispense with formality?
WAIT!!
Not that I meant, You should hang those tiny words all the time in your mouth and say thank you, thank you each time someone does something for you.
Rather, You say it because You appreciated and it came from your heart!

I say thank you to my Mumma, when she comes into my room and hand me an icecream cone that she scooped when she helps herself one.
Do I not say thank you because, well just because she is Mumma and anyway it is her duty and that I go by the rule "It's only right Mum "serve" me cos it's a mother's role to take care of the kid!"
HELL NO!!!!
“如果你要吃， 你不会自己拿？” I could jolly tell you that right in your face!

Anyway!
The bottom note is:
Say what You mean. Do what You think. Love how you feel.
Family, Friends, Partner, Co-workers... We should take no one for granted.
Like I shared before
"The Hardest task kids has to learn these days is, learning good manners without seeing any."
I find myself asking in my heart ever so frequently "Where is the basic manners?"
Not to kiddos, but adults most of the time!
If it's kiddos I am facing, I look at the parents and wonder where has all those teachings and guidance gone to?
Comes to adults, I look at them and think, it's a shame for the education they have received and the years of mingling in the society and yet their basic ettiquette is a miserly zero!


Okays, jokes aside for the first part of this post about the Man & Boa..
I was out on a Date Night with Adr aka my Boa for a good cause. =)
It was a night to call for celebrations!
Toast to New Beginnings!

It was also a night to spend the second last day of 2010 together and have our private catch ups! We were down at Holland V, Sabroso Tapas Wine Bar by 7pm plus for dinner.

It was my other girlfriend Clara who suggested I go down and try the dinner and chill.

I like the small place, cosy and private. That was also because we were seated right at the very end of the bar.

We went for tapas and it filled us up pretty fast.

We had stuff like calamaris, spanish omelette, croquettes, duo mushrooms, paella, baked oysters, bacon dates, turkey breasts, ham&cheesse in bread crumbs and etc.

Not mentioning those porky porky stuff I tried! I was not a fan!

We chatted and laughed, ate and drank till close to 2AM before we left the bar!

and the last that brought a smile before I slept, was a text from Boa saying she loved what I got her for X'mas. I was glad and was sure I picked her the right color!

Muahahaha!

Hot Pink, just as how Hot she is...

Not sweet... ooops... Hahaha!

What makes you most happy when You buy gifts?

I am most HAPPY when I buy something which is what:

the receiver needs.

the receiver likes.

the receiver been eyeing for.

the receiver been searching high&low, but to no avail. But, I found it. =)

the receiver has never gotten anything as unique before.

How about You? =)