The Ultra Man Guide Series...

While this may not apply to all women, it is defo something You wanna work on if You are lack of it. And the deadly factor why You might want to work on or enhance on these areas...

Simply Put.... It attracts! So...

What attracts a woman's attention?


The Smile
Smile... Look at yourself in the mirror and S.M.I.L.E.... =)
Do you like what you see? No? Then try smiling MORE in different styles, different angles and see which smile is best for you, best for the world to see.
While some people are born with really smiling faces, those who are not should make an effort!!
I always believe everyone looks great when they smile! I always tell people that!

Practising in the mirror is not asking you to come up with a best forged smile that looks fake the moment you crack your lips!
Tip: The best smile of all, is one that comes from within.
You may ask "how can one have nice smile when they don't feel good within?"
My take is: Your smile will look good even if you don't feel good once you have the habit to WANT to smile. It will look genuine... =)

SMILE is the 2nd best thing you can do with your lips!
No prizes for guessing what is the 1st! HAHA!!

I find guys with really nice smiles a meltdown!
That nice smile of yours, be Generous with it not to only people you know, you love. Give Generously to strangers too. The waiters who serve you your coffee, the auntie who clears your table and etc.
That bright smile of yours could very well brighten up a person feeling really down on a particular day! Why not?


Be well-groomed
That said, I am not asking you to deck out in high end designer clothes from head to toe.
Dress according to the occasion needed and be comfortable with what you wear!

Well groomed here means:
Hair is short and away from face.
Face to be clean, not oily. Guys can invest in facial too, you know?
No dry chapped lips, no bad breath.
No body odour! (This is a BIG NO!)

Normal get up say for events:
A crisp shirt(ironed), well-tailored pants, pair of pointed leather shoes and a watch should suffice.

Shirts do not have to be boring in one color tone. You can play around with lines, with duo colors!
Some good shirt makers give extra details to the collars, shirt cuffs, the buttons used and etc on their shirts.
Wearing good shirts gives you an identity and let people roughly have a feel of your personality!
If you wanna be meticulous further with the details, cufflinks? Ties?
Don't be too hung up on dressing up though!
When it comes to dressing, GUYS! You wanna look Sharp! Not effeminate and you look like you tried too hard!
What matters is, your top has no creases, your pants fits to a T and not forgetting a pair of good leather shoes(pointed)

Last never the least, wear good cologne!!
It makes people wanna come near you. *wink
Brand are not most important because...
Different people, their bodies react differently to the same type of perfume, colognes used.
Find the one that suits u the best.
How? Take note of how many people constantly tells u how good u smell when you wear a certain cologne. Take note when people ask what cologne are you using?

Have a few or as much as you can afford to rotate..
Like for cycling at the parks?
Attending events, parties.
Going out on a date?
They are as suggestive as what your mood feels on some days! =)

Good colognes because women remembers you by your scent! Ever experience when you hug your girl and she puts her nose close to your body?
It is akin to a baby knowing how her Mumma smells.
Or, you ever experienced that you are out station for weeks and your girl brings home your jacket, shirt etc so she can wear to sleep or smell it when she misses you?
It is as good as your presence! Need I say more? =)))


Have a great sense of humour!
Now, we all love a few jokes there and then.. It simply means having the ability to make people laugh! Laughing makes people lower their guard towards you and they LOOSEN UP thus creating a gateway to know the person at a deeper level and a connection is formed. Ding*

Am not asking you to be a clown or a loudmouth babbling non-stop that you become the joke itself!
Just be yourself, be light hearted and playful.
Remember: You should also never make a joke at the expense of others aka putting people down to the extent the person is utterly embarassed! Ewww.... *X-ing both my hands together
However, if you have nothing to talk about, it will do you a lot more good to keep quiet rather than talk for the sake of talking. =)


Ability to connect with people. =)
That will require you to have a thirst for knowledge and absorbs all information like Sponge Bob!

Having nuggets of interesting information or facts does wonders to open up topics and keeps people entertained as they wanna know more, hear more from you!
It also makes women intersted in what more you have to offer.
Women appreciate a man with brains and brainy men are someone they can learn from and naturally look up to. It gives women a sense of security too!

But, please.... information nuggets on religion, politics... Keep it to yourself at parties and even first time meet ups. *X-ing both my hands together again
They are not the topics you wanna talk about. People gets uptight about it and defensive which is the last thing you want.


Your Confidence Boost...
It says a lot about how you feel about yourself. Are you comfortable about yourself and around people? Are you ready to face the world? It also at the same time projects your ability to be or take control of a situation should it arises.

If there is anything or any part about you which you are not satisfied and it makes you feel down, make adjustments and move on!
Say your confidence is crushed whenever you are surrounded with guys in good shape? Then stop dwelling on it and but do nothing and the next time you are surrounded by good bodied guys again, you feel shit all over again and the cycle continues.

But hey! If you have a good sense of humour and even when surrounded by good bodied guys, your confidence is not crushed, neither does it make you feel down and you could still very well have the attention on you cracking people up, well... That is the Confidence I am talking about.
=)

So guys!
These are what attracts a women's attention!
Hope You guys get some insights from this post today!
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