in future,
skip the part of asking.
leaving the other party no options to choose from,
and having the chance of saying no.
but, to take up the only one option you presented.
as if it has already been decided upon.


this is something call the assumption close.

don't ask a girl if she wanna go for dinner? (no chance to ponder)
instead,
ask if she prefers chinese or japanese food.
and let her follow your lead. = )